What questions do I love asking to make them interested?
Do You ever feel like you want to talk to people and create a great relationship?
Everybody wants to connect with more people and talk to them.
Unfortunately, school and society don’t teach us how to start an engaging conversation.
That’s why most people struggle to build an interesting relationship.
To succeed in business, you must learn to talk to as many people as possible.
I don’t believe in something called extrovert and introvert personalities. There is no such thing as extroversion and introversion.
You can start a small conversation with people and make them interested in you.
Keep reading. You are going to get tons of ideas. I am going to share some of the coolest questions people will love to answer.
I love meeting new people and asking questions that cut through their skin and pull out their heart for all to see.
It’s necessary, but I’m not a big fan (you don’t learn anything).
Much rather use the precious moments of life to build a stronger relationship, learn and create GREAT energy. It’s infectious.
This year, I’ve met quite a few people from the online world.
And taken the relationship offline.
Below are questions I’ve either asked or been asked — which served as the foundation for opening people up and creating win/win relationships:
1) What’s your story? How was your journey so far?
We all have one.
Some are better than others. But that doesn’t matter.
What matters is I want to see what *YOU* believe your story is.
Your answer tells me a lot about you, plus what you value and hold dear to your heart.
It’s a great way to open people up — straight from the bat. And set the “tone” for the rest of the dinner/conversation.
(if you too have a story to tell — reply to this email with your story.)
2) What are you excited about right now?
A quick tip: “People associate feelings to people.”
So the more positive emotions you create over dinner, the stronger your relationship grows.
This question does a great job of creating positive, feel-good emotions.
It helps you discover NEW opportunities/trends.
All these things were brought to my attention because I asked smart people, “What are you excited about right now?”
3) What does an average day in your life look like?
Having people walk you through their day not only makes them feel understood.
But it opens their world to yours.
And in between the two, you have the opportunity to inject a value.
I hope these questions are good enough to start great conversations.
(Read further to get BONUS QUESTIONS)
– Mayur Bardolia
Results Coach/ Author
Skype ID: mayurbardolia
Copyright © Mayur Bardolia 2018 All Rights Reserved
P.S. Bonus questions:
1. What are you struggling with right now? (perhaps their answer could reveal a clue which allows you to provide value to them)
2. How did you become you?
3. A question to ask yourself: What value can I provide to x person right here, right now?
If you ask yourself just the last question on a consistent basis, your entire world will change, practically overnight.
I promise you.
P.S.S. Reply directly if you want to chat about your struggles with time management, or how I can help to enjoy the work that you do and to achieve goals quickly and maximizing productivity without working for longer hours. So that you can create more profit and more time for yourselves and family.